WHEN TO TURN GAY/STRAIGHT

Hey Jesse Neo!

I'm having bit of mix up between sexes at the moment and don't know when to turn or keep straight/gay...

Signed,
  -Dylan

Dear Dylan,

You were born either being attracted to males or females, or even both. There should be no reasons why you feel you should turn gay or straight. It is something that you're born with, such as your race and hair color. There are no ways for you to change them naturally.

If you are unsure if you are gay, straight or bi, you may try asking yourself which gender you are attracted to. Look around the people around you, and see if you can feel the difference. If you can't, then most of the time you are bi, and there is nothing wrong with it too.

Finding out your sexual preference can take a long time for some people. The secret of finding it is to be true to yourself and realize there is no correct orientation you should be. So if you're an orientation, you're that orientation. Just be proud of it!

If you would want more advice or hope to stay in contact with me, feel free to add me on MySpace and/or Facebook and/or Twitter! Just hit me up a message or comment anytime! I promise to reply to them all!

Best regards,
  -Jesse Neo