HE GOT PAID TO TURN ME DOWN!

Hey Jesse Neo!

I really like this guy but he had already turned me down because his friends paid him to! He kept giving me "hints" that he's interested in me and he told me that he is sorry. Since we are going to the same school in September, he might like other girls so how do I get him to like me? I keep having the same dream about him... are they signs?

Signed,
  -Gabby Gabbs

Dear Gabby Gabbs,

If he truly loves you, money can stand no chance in getting of his way. By him turning you down to get paid is already a clue that he does not love you as much as you think he does.

But I understand how you want to make him like you before liking others. Before going on I need to remind you that there is nothing you can do to go against his choice. So if he chooses to not like you, it's time to find someone else... in the meantime before he'd made the choice and even after giving you hints he loves you, it is time to act now before he likes someone else. Don't be so dumb like me believing those "hints" will last forever! For now, talk to him more! Try to be his friend and get to know him! Ask him out (not as a date) to the movies, a concert, the cinemas, etc. until the special day come! If you are sure that he loves you, it may be time for you two to be together for sure!

To answer your dream question, I really don't know. I too had dreams similar to yours and I remember my friend telling me that dreams are actually events waiting to happen ONLY if YOU make it happen! Yes, my dream that I dreamed did come to reality but not as far as I could because I didn't had the courage to make it real until I lost the chance. So don't make the mistake I did! You dreamed it, you must really like him! Now go and get him before it's too late!

If you would want more advice or hope to stay in contact with me, feel free to add me on MySpace and/or Facebook and/or Twitter! Just hit me up a message or comment anytime! I promise to reply to them all!

Best regards,
  -Jesse Neo