NOT SEEING BOYFRIEND

Hey Jesse Neo!

I'm wondering if my relationship with my boyfriend is going to last. When we got together at first, we talked everyday but after that week we stopped calling and seeing each other. We do argue about some stupid stuff sometimes but we tell each other that this will make us like each other more, but I'm not sure about this anymore. Today was our first month together in this relationship. I haven't heard anything about him and sometimes I feel like I am not his girlfriend. So I'm wondering a lot about this... what should I do?

Signed,
  -Adriana

Dear Adriana,

By the sound of your problem, you and your boyfriend seem very young. During this time, boys are very wild creatures and just want to hang out with their friends 24/7. The reason why your boyfriend stopped talking to you is because in the first place, the only reason why he wanted to be in this relationship was to feel the fun and pleasure of it, and now that it is over, he is slowly moving away.

You still have your whole life in front of you and you can't let stupid things like this get to you. Speak to him a few times, sit next to him at school and try other ways to get close to him. If he still feels like he doesn't care, I?ll suggest you to just slowly move away. Don't announce any official break ups or anything? until it finally falls apart and then just leave it that way.

There is nothing you can do to change your boyfriend for now because his life still lies with his friends, and not you, but the good thing about this is this will change as you both gets older! So don't give up so easily and just hang on!

If you would want more advice or hope to stay in contact with me, feel free to add me on MySpace and/or Facebook and/or Twitter! Just hit me up a message or comment anytime! I promise to reply to them all!

Best regards,
  -Jesse Neo