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My Boyfriend Smokes Weed

Hey Jesse Neo!

My boyfriend and I have been talking for five months before we actually got together. We found out our parents worked together and were close friends. We were deeply in love and figured this would make our relationship perfect.

Everything is fine but he smokes weed and says he want to quit. We get in fights about it all the time because he randomly texts or calls me to tell me he just smoked. I don't want to lose him over these fights. I need advice because I can't stop crying and stressing out.

Signed,
  -Kaitlyn

Dear Kaitlyn,

Quitting smoking or any other type of drugs is difficult. It can be a long and tiring process, but it is possible to overcome it. Instead of having a huge expectation for your boyfriend to stop smoking completely, perhaps you could set smaller goals such as to not smoke for a day. If he can pass this objective, increase the aim to two days. Gradually, he'll be able to make it through a month and then eventually an entire year. Make sure you give him rewards too.

If you would want more advice or hope to stay in contact with me, feel free to add me on MySpace and/or Facebook and/or Twitter! Just hit me up a message or comment anytime! I promise to reply to them all!

Best regards,
  -Jesse Neo

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Lindsay C
Posted 483 days ago
My boy friend has the same issue he smokes weed and ciggarettes and he says he wants to quit but he hasnt and we tried the whole 1 day thing and he always messes it up he cant keep going liek he went a month without it then i caught him doing it behind my back cause he didnt want to upset me. He is now 18 and has been smoking both since he was 10. Do you think he will ever be able to quit? and whats some advice you can give me because just like kaitlyn we get into fights constantly over it cause i cant stand it. What should I do?