NOT EXPERIENCED ENOUGH FOR LOVE

Hey Jesse Neo!

I'm 15 years old and I'm in grade 9. Nearly everyone in my class  has had a boy/girlfriend but I haven't. Is there something wrong with me? I become really self conscious and I think no boy will ever want me because I'm not experienced enough! Please help!

Signed,
  -Destressed

Dear Destressed,

Being experienced in love doesn't means the number of times you've been in love, but rather how much you understand about love. There is no point of being in multiple relationships in the past if you don't know the real meaning of it.

Falling in love is a complex thing and many teens these days use it as a way to have fun and fit in like having a cell phone because everyone has one. This is not true the true meaning of having a boyfriend or girlfriend. Being in a relationship means to commit your life to them, to respect them, and lastly love them unconditionally for who they are. If you notice, the older the generation, the least they tend to break up, but in teens dating - oh my goodness, there's so much dramas that it's not even funny!

So as long you understand the true meaning of love and continues growing up (in the brain, that is) then yes, you are getting experienced in love, and believe me, the older you are to get your first boyfriend or girlfriend, he/she will be more likely to be your only boyfriend/girlfriend. So don't feel sad about not having a boyfriend/girlfriend. You are still very young and the road in front of you is still unpredictable. Everything can change in a moment!

If you would want more advice or hope to stay in contact with me, feel free to add me on MySpace and/or Facebook and/or Twitter! Just hit me up a message or comment anytime! I promise to reply to them all!

Best regards,
  -Jesse Neo

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