NEVER TOLD A GUY I LIKE HIM

Hey Jesse Neo!

I?ve liked this guy in my class for like two years but I?ve never told him because I was afraid he would say no. I finally decided that I should but now he won't talk to me. What should I do? Please give me your answer.

Signed,
  -Lisa Nguyen

Dear Lisa Nguyen,

The guy isn't talking to you not because he hates you or whatever, but because he doesn't know you that well. I'm sure there are plenty of ways that you could talk to him, such as saying a simple hi to him when he is around. The next time you see him, act bored, uneasy, and use this time to start a conversation. It doesn't have to be about you liking him, but about something else like the whether, how was your night, etc.

But on the other hand, there may be another reason for him not talking to you. If you have given him signs that you like him, he may get shy and nervous, and actually waiting for you to talk to him. Just because someone is not talking to you doesn't mean they hate you ? it could just basically mean they like you but just too embarrassed to face it!

If you would want more advice or hope to stay in contact with me, feel free to add me on MySpace and/or Facebook and/or Twitter! Just hit me up a message or comment anytime! I promise to reply to them all!

Best regards,
  -Jesse Neo