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Letting Go of Someone For Love

Hey Jesse Neo!

Can I let go of someone that I love because I don't want to hurt them? I can't tell if he likes me but we have been together for six months. I know I love him but my life is too complicated. What should I do?

Signed,
  -JJ Nather

Dear JJ Nather,

If you really care about him and don't want to hurt him, you have to admit to yourself that you are in love with him. Loving someone doesn't mean you have to be with them 24/7. It only means you are willing to commit yourself to them and do anything to make sure he is okay. Even though you may not be with him, you can always give him frequent phone calls or emails asking how he feels and if things are going smoothly. All these actions are small deeds you can do without being too serious, since your life is already complicated.

If you would want more advice or hope to stay in contact with me, feel free to add me on MySpace and/or Facebook and/or Twitter! Just hit me up a message or comment anytime! I promise to reply to them all!

Best regards,
  -Jesse Neo



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Glenda
Posted 86 days ago
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