JEALOUS OF BEST FRIEND AND CRUSH

Hey Jesse Neo!

I have a crush but my school does not allow this. I know lots of people have boyfriends and girlfriends secretly and I also did this. I told him how I felt and he told me that felt the same way. For two months we liked each other but we never spoke? then when our school was rehearsing for a school program we were staring at each other A LOT but when we were done with the program his friend told me he does not like me anymore. Of course i was heart-broken.

Next week his friend told me he had a crush on my best friend! How do I stop feeling jealous of my best friend and stop feeling this way when I push myself too hard to stop liking him?

Signed,
  -Michelle

Dear Michelle,

The only source that told you your crush don't like you was his friends. It was not him in person, so there may be some chances that the friend is lying to you. I think it would be much better if you ask your crush face to face.

On the other hand if your crush did like your best friend, don't be let down. I can almost guarantee you they will break up in a few months or maybe even less. For the time being, just be friends with them, especially your crush so that he will be able to trust you more when he becomes single again. Try to invite him into conversations and maybe even mixing with his friends? you know, just to hang out and chill! As time passes, I promise everything will work out perfectly!

If you would want more advice or hope to stay in contact with me, feel free to add me on MySpace and/or Facebook and/or Twitter! Just hit me up a message or comment anytime! I promise to reply to them all!

Best regards, -Jesse Neo