How Should a Guy Approach a Guy?

Hey Jesse Neo!

I like this guy in my class but I don't know how to approach him since I'm also a guy. Would it be awkward if I tell him how I feel? I'm kind of friends with him but we're not really close. What should I do?

Signed,
  -Tuppin

Dear Tuppin,

There is one reason why you are attracted to a person ? because you share something in common. There is one reason why you are friends ? because you share something in common. Therefore, there is a high chance that, secretly, the guy also likes you.

There is nothing wrong or shameful about a guy being in love with a guy. It is human nature. Perhaps you could spend more time with him, share secrets and develop your feelings with each other. Before asking him out, question him about guys. Do they appeal to him? What does he look for in them? The more you ask, the higher the chance you'll be able to get with him.

If you would want more advice or hope to stay in contact with me, feel free to add me on MySpace and/or Facebook and/or Twitter! Just hit me up a message or comment anytime! I promise to reply to them all!

Best regards,
  -Jesse Neo

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