Hey Jesse Neo!
How do I get to know if my love actually loves me? And if they don't, how do I get them to?
Please give me good advice! BY THE WAY I LOVE YOUR WEBSITE! :D
Signed,
-Vanessa
Dear Vanessa,
There are no straight forward answer if your love is really interested in you if they don't actually tell you. So unless you ask them (which I believe you won't), there are no ways to know for sure. However there are many signs you can look out for! Here are a few:
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If you are sad, they will get sad too. You will notice them not being themselves and always seem to be looking out for you.
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They are single and over their ex. If not, they may already like someone else and therefore can't be in love with you.
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When you're around, they always have you in the corner of their eyes. Try noticing if they keep turning their eyes to you every few minutes. However they will only do this if you don't keep looking at them, since then they will start to believe you will ask them out soon and no point of them to try or show interest in you.
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When you move close to them, they quickly move away. You may think this is a sign they don't like you... but the truth is, they get shy are really do want to be with you must just too embarrassed to admit it!
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They randomly stand really close, possibly even touching you, but they don't talk to you. They are just waiting for you to start the conversation. If you look at their face, they will seem stress and seems to be waiting for something - YOU!
If going through this list and you reckon your crush don't love you, you must then do things to prove you want them. Talking and communicating is an awesome way to start! Invite them to social events, to the movies, to the library and so forth. As you do this, your crush may then start showing those signs listed above.
Please remember that there is no definite way to make them love you! It is 100% their choice. If it comes to term there is no hope for you and them, I am sad to say it's time to move on.
If you would want more advice or hope to stay in contact with me, feel free to add me on MySpace and/or Facebook and/or Twitter! Just hit me up a message or comment anytime! I promise to reply to them all!
Best regards,
-Jesse Neo
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