HOW TO BREAK UP WITH MY BOYFRIEND

Hey Jesse Neo!

I can not stand my boyfriend anymore! He just randomly goes missing without telling me what happens and then comes back saying his going to end is life right now and stuff. If he really loves me, he won't be doing all of these. So how do I breakup with my boyfriend once and for all?

Signed,
  -Crystal

Dear Crystal,

Before breaking up with your boyfriend you should consider all the reasons why you should do so and decide if it is worth it or not. But seeing you've already thought about this, I'll move on.

In order to avoid anymore difficulties is to plan the breakup. Think of all the words you'll say and maybe even plan how to end the conversation by saying something like "I have to go now because I promised to go shopping with my sister". Remember to break up in person. Don't do it through the phone or AIM/MSN because believe me, your heartache will start haunting you. It is like hearing your best friend just died in an accident through the phone. A strange urge inside of you won't just go away if you break up not in person. It's like you haven't finished what you wanted to say.

Stay calm. Meet your boyfriend somewhere and say something like "we need to talk." Explain how being in this relationship is doing more damage to you than good in a respectful manner, and then finally end the relationship.

The next step is to distance yourself from your ex. Do not read through his MySpace comments, looking through memories, and anything that reminds you of him or the pass. It is now history! And finally, remember breaking up is a normal part of life.

If you would want more advice or hope to stay in contact with me, feel free to add me on MySpace and/or Facebook and/or Twitter! Just hit me up a message or comment anytime! I promise to reply to them all!

Best regards,
  -Jesse Neo