FRIEND TRYING TO BE THE VICTIM

Hey Jesse Neo!

I like this guy at school and told my best friend about it. She later told me that she started liking that guy too. I didn't really care but later on our friendship started to fall apart so we both agreed to forget about him.

Later on, I realised my friend was getting really sad so I told her to go for the guy and that I could forget about him, but then she started to act so immature! She said bad stuff behind my back and even lied to me! Once she asked me if I was talking behind her back and I said yes because I'm so tired of her, and she always tries to be the victim. I'm also mad because she likes like five guys at a time, I mean, just what the hell!

Signed,
  -Christina

Dear Christina,

This is something really common that happens between people. You must first understand that if either of you like a guy, that guy will never knows what your friends know about you. Your friends are the one that understands and support you the most. The guys you date come and go, and can even betray you! So losing friends over a guy is so not worth it!

What I think you should do now is to have some time out. If your friend decides to run away, let her do so, because one day she?ll realise you?re the one she needs. She may not know this yet, but you need to let her find this out herself. Don't stay in her way, let her do what she pleases but remember to always be there for her!

If you would want more advice or hope to stay in contact with me, feel free to add me on MySpace and/or Facebook and/or Twitter! Just hit me up a message or comment anytime! I promise to reply to them all!

Best regards,
  -Jesse Neo