Crush Broke Up With Her Boyfriend

Hey Jesse Neo!

I need advice on a girl. We like each other a lot and a few weeks ago, she told me that she has a guy and she can't leave him because she feels sorry for him. She said we should stay friends but he now moved to Germany. They have broken up and gotten together many times. It's driving me nuts to know that this guy treats her like crap.

Signed,
  -Nico

Dear Nico,

There is nothing you can do to change someone's decisions. Instead of thinking that you can only care about her if you were her boyfriend, you should still care for her as a friend. It doesn't matter if her heart is with the guy that moved to Germany, if you continue to unconditionally be concerned for her, one day, she will finally realise it. The key is patience.

If you would want more advice or hope to stay in contact with me, feel free to add me on MySpace and/or Facebook and/or Twitter! Just hit me up a message or comment anytime! I promise to reply to them all!

Best regards,
  -Jesse Neo

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