Boy Saying He Will Never Date Me

Hey Jesse Neo!

I have a best friend called Cassidy and have been friends since 2nd grade. The thing is, I like her boyfriend. I haven?t told her this or her boyfriend as I don?t want to break them up. I just don?t know what to do. It?s hard for me to see them together so I make up lies. Every time I see them hugging it feels like my heart breaks more. I think is that I should be moving on because he said he would never date me.

Signed,
  -Sammy

Dear Sammy,

Liking someone?s boyfriend is really bad! Not only are you hurting your friend, her boyfriend, but you are also hurting yourself. It is almost like filling yourself with lies. I recommend you put your focus on something else. How are you doing with school? Have you found a part time job? There are many things in life beside boyfriends.

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Best regards,
  -Jesse Neo

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