Hey Jesse Neo!
My best friends had always been guys. Last year I started to really like my best friend and it took me months to build up all my courage to tell him. When I did, he told me that he knew but didn’t felt the same, and from then, he’d changed dramatically. We kept arguing and when we left school, he completely changed. We don’t talk anymore and he’d become really popular. When I see him in town, he and his friends shout horrible stuff at me! Also because I was the only one out of my group of friends that left, all my other friends had decided to go with him.
My problem is I’ve fallen for my now best friend and I’ve told one of my girl friends. She texted him telling him it but he doesn’t know that I know that he replied to her saying "It’s up to her if she want to change anything between us... but it might turn out for the worst".
This totally confused me! I want to ask him out but I’m afraid that the same thing will happen again with my new best friend! I don’t think I can take anymore heart breaks. I am only 17 and I’m on anti-depressants. I don’t know whether to go for it and just say something to him, or save myself the risk.
Signed,
-Miss J
Dear Miss J,
Don’t worry, you’re not alone. I’m one who is liking a best guy friend too.
It’s a really hard choice, and I haven’t even made a choice of confessing to him yet since I don’t want any friendships to be gone. I’ve talked to my friends about my own problem, and they all told me the same thing, “If he is a true friend, then you guys should be fine. But go for it and confess to him.”
I’m thinking about a confession, and I will go for it sometime soon. And in my opinion, you should be strong and go for it too, there is nothing to lose, if he leaves you, then look on a brighter side, since true friends never leave each other hanging.
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Best regards,
-Jesse Neo Advisor, Michele
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