Hey Jesse Neo!
I don't know if you can help me but here it is.
Me and this guy really like each other. Simple, right? Well I wish. He has a girlfriend. We talk every night on the phone and he always tells me he loves me that would do anything for me, and he knows I feel the same. I've told him that this is wrong and that he should choose quickly because I don't like it this way. He stated that he will break up with her to be with me but he never did. I tried and approached him with it but it's just so hard. I love him so much, and apparently it's the same to me. He's my best friend and is always there for me, we have gone through a lot together and our friendship will never change.
He also told me that he would dump her on my words before, but I said that it's his decision. He then said he left her a phone message or something. I feel like a home wrecker, but should that bother me if we love each other so much?
Signed,
-Home Wrecker
Dear Home Wrecker,
What you need to worry about is your feelings for him. After realising your true desires, it is then up to him to consider you. Do not force him into anything he doesn't want because it will only end up hurting you in the future. Always keep in mind that if a boy can dump his girlfriend to be with you, he can also do the same to you to be with someone else.
For now, just wait for time. You can't expect everything to go through easily. Love is a very complicated thing. His mind may be in a maze right now and you just need to let him find his way out. You can't help him because you?ll get lost too, but if you wait at the exit, soon you two will come to a conclusion. You did said he was your best friend so until then, continue being his friend and be the best friend he can ever have! This will show you that you truly care even if you two are not dating. So as you can see, as long as you're true to yourself and let the guy be true to himself, you are not a home wrecker. Just let time do its thing.
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Best regards,
-Jesse Neo
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